6 Do’s and 6 Don’ts to Create and Keep A Relationship That’s Easy and Fun

Something I have often gotten sucked into in relationship is trying to change my “significant” other.

You are all too wise to know that this doesn’t work!

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~ photo of me and my partner Christopher.  Taken by: Tamaryn Goodyear in Seoul.

Here are the:

6 Do’s and 6 Don’ts to Create and Keep A Relationship That’s Easy and Fun

Six Don’ts: What to Avoid if You Want Your Relationship to Last

1. Don’t demand that the other person change

2. Don’t criticize, say they’re wrong, or argue

3. Don’t share your feelings

4. Don’t blame your partner for anything that goes wrong in your life

5. Don’t give up yourself

6. Don’t try to control your partner

Six Do’s: What do Do if You Want Your Relationship to Last

1. Remember everything your partner does is just an interesting point of view

2. Be grateful for who they are

3. Receive their helpfulness and contribution to your life

4. Choose someone you like

5. Live in the present

6. Look at who you’re with, not who you wish you were with

The devil of course is in the details! Some of these may surprise you. The trickiest part is really applying them, which is the focus of the telecall that’s available for free on Dr.Kacie Crisp’s website – she is brilliant at this stuff.  Go check it out!

Venus is an energy healer, facilitator & life coach currently based in Toronto.  Her motivation is that of bringing light and information onto the planet through connecting with people like you.  Feel free to connect for a free 30 minute Skype session to see what else could be possible for you. 

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